Paper short abstract:

This study deconstructs the cultural concept known as Akọ igi kì í ṣoje within Yorùbá masculinity by unveiling men’s vulnerability. It traces the historical origin, cultural beliefs, and the impact of this concept on mental and psychological well-being of Yorùbá men.

Paper long abstract:

The cultural concept of Akọ igi kì í ṣoje in Yorùbá parlance has deprived men of their rights to express themselves emotionally when hurt. As a result, men are expected to exhibit strength, resilience, and emotional stoicism, avoiding displaying vulnerability or emotions such as crying, even when facing challenges or emotional distress. However, this concept has faced criticism for its potential impact on men’s mental health, arguing that encouraging emotional suppression can lead to psychological distress, as it restricts men from seeking help, expressing their feelings, or seeking emotional support when needed. This can contribute to feelings of isolation, anxiety, and depression, as individuals may feel pressured to conform to societal expectations rather than address their emotional well-being. In light of the above, this study deconstructs the cultural concept of Akọ igi kì í ṣoje within Yorùbá masculinity by unveiling men’s vulnerability like their women counterparts. This study has three fundamental objectives: first, to trace the historical origin and evolution of this cultural concept. second is to analyze the cultural beliefs and values associated with Akọ igi kì í ṣoje. Finally, to evaluate the potential impact of the concept Akọ igi kì í ṣoje on the mental and psychological well-being of Yorùbá men. To achieve these objectives, this study adopts a qualitative method of data collection by conducting interviews with men of different groups and custodians of Yorùbá culture. The study argues that addressing and deconstructing such cultural norms is essential for promoting healthier attitudes toward masculinity and mental health.