Paper short abstract:

This paper explores the complexities of forming and fostering relationships among Swiss and German migrants in the neighbouring country, shedding light on their unique experiences of building connections in a 'foreign place' despite shared cultural and geographical proximity.

Paper long abstract:

Despite the increase in highly skilled migration in the last two decades, the social relations of these migrants, especially within Europe and between culturally and geographically close countries, have received little attention. This paper examines the multiple dynamics of relationship formation and retention among highly skilled German and Swiss transnational migrants in the respective neighbouring country.

A dual perspective emerges. On the one hand, migrants navigate the complex process of building new relationships as adults in a new environment. On the other hand, they bring forth narratives of cultural difference, highlighting the challenges and unique dynamics these migrants face in forming and maintaining meaningful relationships - even when the socio-cultural backgrounds are remarkably similar. While German migrants in Switzerland have been the target of controversial public discourse over the past two decades, Swiss migrants represent a largely overlooked but well-received minority. Positive and negative stereotypes add an additional layer of complexity to the social integration of migrants in this context.

Through biographical life course interviews with migrants who have lived in the host country for an average of more than ten years, the paper aims to unravel the migrants' narratives that influence not only their relationship with their home community and host country, but also their future prospects. The study captures the perspectives of migrants who, despite shared cultural and geographical proximity, grapple with the complexities of establishing and maintaining meaningful connections.